I understand.  I guess it's just different viewpoints on internet relationships.  To me, tracking him down online seems a little stalker-y, but then again I loathe the whole facebook movement.  Other than Loftis, Aqua was just about the only 'online friend' I talked to consistently on AIM back in the day.  I also know he valued his privacy, at least concerning his wife, which I can identify with.  I would love it if he came back and have said so many times.  If this was more some type of Aqua appreciation thread, I'd be all over it.